Tantus They/Them in Copper is a short, full, flexible dildo made from the maker’s 100% Ultra-Premium Soft Silicone. Its wide base is designed for harness compatibility and remains available as a control point during handheld use.
Verified product details
| Maker | Tantus |
|---|---|
| Product / color | They/Them — Copper |
| Store SKU | NAL-85270 |
| Manufacturer part number | 0122-86-TC |
| UPC / GTIN | 019213853716 |
| Material | 100% Ultra-Premium Soft Silicone, as specified by Tantus |
| Total length | 5.5 in |
| Insertable length | 5 in |
| Diameter | 1.75 in |
| Approximate circumference | 5 in, supplier-listed |
| Base | Wide and harness compatible |
Size, harness fit, and control
Compare the 1.75-inch diameter and 5-inch insertable length with products that are already comfortable; the soft material does not make the listed size a beginner size or eliminate the need for preparation. For harness use, confirm that the base and shaft fit the specific harness opening and remain stable before use. “Harness compatible” does not mean every harness fits.
For anal use, keep the wide base outside the body at all times. Apply abundant compatible lubricant, begin slowly, and maintain direct control of the base. Agree on pace, depth, and a stop signal before partner use. Never force movement against resistance.
Lubricant compatibility
Tantus recommends water-based lubricant with its toys. The maker says silicone lubricant can be used with many Tantus toys only after a spot test, while also warning that silicone lubricant may damage silicone toys. Water-based lubricant is therefore the conservative default. If testing another formula, use a small inconspicuous area first and stop if the surface changes in color, texture, tackiness, or elasticity.
Safety and hygiene limits
- Inspect the shaft and base before every use. Retire the product if it develops tears, cracks, rough edges, swelling, stickiness, permanent distortion, or damage that cannot be cleaned and inspected reliably.
- Stop for sharp, increasing, persistent, or otherwise concerning pain, bleeding, numbness, loss of sensation, swelling, or irritation.
- Do not use numbing or desensitizing products; they can hide discomfort that should guide pace and stopping.
- Do not move the same unclean product between people or body areas. Use a new compatible barrier for each person or body area when sharing, and replace it immediately if it slips or tears.
- This product is not represented as preventing infection, pregnancy, injury, or fluid exposure.
Cleaning, drying, and storage
For routine cleaning, Tantus directs users to wash silicone toys with antibacterial mild soap and warm-to-hot water, rinse thoroughly, and air-dry or pat dry with a lint-free cloth. Clean around the base and any contour where residue can collect.
For a more extensive clean, the maker identifies this non-electronic silicone design as boilable and top-rack dishwasher safe. Tantus’ current FAQ specifies a two-minute boil with enough water to keep the toy completely covered, continuous supervision, careful removal with tongs or a spoon, cooling, and complete drying. In a dishwasher, place it on the top rack and let any remaining moisture air-dry.
Store only when fully dry, in a clean, cool place away from direct sunlight, heat, dust, and lint. Reinspect before reuse.
Browse the Tantus collection, compare harnesses and shared-play products, explore the harness-compatible dildo tag, read how to clean and store intimate products, check shipping and discreet packaging, or review the returns, refunds, and hygiene policy.
