The blue b-Vibe Butties Hither Silicone Prostate Plug is a manual prostate-focused plug with a smooth shaft and an angled come-hither tip. It is designed to apply pressure at a more focused angle than a straight fullness plug. There is no motor, battery, remote, or app; the user controls depth, pressure, and movement through hand position and body angle.
Longer, slimmer targeted shape
- Insertable length: approximately 4.4 inches
- Total length: approximately 5.6 inches
- Maximum thickness: approximately 1.2 inches
- Base thickness: approximately 2.5 inches
- Material: seamless silicone
- Power: none; fully manual
The smooth shaft reduces abrupt texture changes, while the angled head creates the defining pressure point. A thick tapered base remains outside the body, and the retrieval ring gives the hand a reliable grip. The base is not a suction cup and the ring is not designed to be worn around another body part. Keep both external and reachable throughout use.
Hither versus shorter bulb shapes
The Hither is longer and slightly slimmer than the b-Vibe Butties Bulb Prostate Plug. The Bulb concentrates fullness in a shorter rounded head; Hither emphasizes reach and a more pointed angle. For a compact alternative, compare the b-Vibe Thumb Silicone Prostate Plug. For vibration rather than manual pressure, the b-Vibe Essential Vibing P-Spot offers ten powered functions. Browse all prostate toys for more profiles.
Neither shape is universally better. Hither may suit a shopper who wants a longer shaft and directional tip, while Bulb may suit someone prioritizing a shorter insertable length and rounded pressure. Read the butt plug versus prostate massager guide and prostate-toy buyer guide before comparing only by name.
How a directional tip changes control
The angled tip makes orientation more important than it is with a symmetrical round plug. Before insertion, identify which direction the tip points and decide how the ring will be positioned when the curve faces forward. If the tip does not contact a comfortable area, withdraw slightly before rotating rather than twisting forcefully at full depth. The 4.4-inch insertable length gives more reach than the shorter Bulb model, but users should choose depth based on comfort rather than trying to insert the full listed length.
Because Hither is manual, pressure changes when the user shifts hips, tightens pelvic muscles, or applies gentle movement to the ring. It will not vibrate, rotate, or thrust on its own. That simplicity can help a user learn which angle feels useful, but it also means a partner should avoid sudden movements. Keep a hand near the external base during active motion. Do not attach weights or improvised cords to the ring, and do not use the plug if the ring or base becomes damaged.
Insertion and positioning
Use generous water-based lubricant and choose a position where the external ring stays easy to reach. Insert the tapered shaft slowly with the angled tip oriented toward the front of the body, pause when muscles tighten, and avoid pushing through pain or resistance. Once comfortable, small pelvic movements can change where the tip applies pressure. Because the tip is directional, rotating the plug may substantially change sensation; adjust slowly. Our prostate massager use guide explains positioning and pacing.
Sharing and body-area transitions
If Hither is shared between people or moved between body areas, use a fresh compatible barrier for each person or transition and clean the toy completely. Never move an anal toy to another body area without changing the barrier and cleaning it appropriately. A barrier does not eliminate the need for lubricant, inspection, or slow insertion. During partnered use, the receiving partner should set pace and depth and have an immediate stop signal.
Cleaning and storage
The manufacturer describes Hither as fully waterproof. Wash before and after use with warm water and mild unscented soap or a compatible toy cleaner, rinse thoroughly, and let it dry completely. Use water-based lubricant as the conservative default for silicone. Store it separately in a clean, dry pouch or container. Our water-based lubricant guide, cleaning guide, and materials and care page cover the routine.
Inspect the tip, shaft, neck, base, and ring for tears, cuts, tackiness, or deformation before use. Stop for sharp pain, bleeding, persistent numbness, or loss of sensation. Opened intimate products may have hygiene-based return restrictions, so review the returns and hygiene policy before opening the package.